there is nothing wrong with wanting a stable relationship. But it doesn't mean that it is to be one sided. In the future, when I see a problem. The solution is not to anticipate that it will fail, but to allow it to play out. And at that juncture, to talk/work it out.

Its silly that I talk about it not, it might be ages before I'd have to use it. But this is way more sensible than how I've been lately.. blame it on the junk food...