in the last 2 weeks I have see-sawed back and forth mulling over if I can disappoint this person who has showered me with so much love. any I couldn't agree more, he describes me as conflicted. Depending on the time of day or who I spoke to my answer to him shifted or backtracked. The truth is, if it is build on sand then, this relationship I mean, then its not meant to be. And I have to stick to my guns and rip off the bandaid. It will probably sting but it is for the best.