they never say a word.. yet there is this pressure for you to conform.. but tell me? why should you.. its utter nonsense.. don't listen.. not buy into it...

Thursday, February 16, 2006

How to get him to do what you wannt..

I was reading a really cool magazine when I came across this..
its really too bad that they don't have the full article online

you might call it manipulation, but I call it applied psychology. (so did them!)

Scenario 1
Suppose you want a man to do something for you, and even after asking dozens of times and feeling like such a nag he still hasn't got off that fat ass to get it done..

As the article goes, no matter how nicely you ask, he's going to hear it as an order.

Solution? men are status conscious- they have this need to feel in charge.. the general of the house!
so, don't ask him to do something, but put him in charge of a problem
Instead of "fix the drip in the shower" say.. in a really taa voice "the leak in the shower is driving me crazy"

If he's still not acting, consider going to him in distress... hehe
" I took the shower head off, and the drip is worst"

he's now not the general, but a war hero! with his tool to the rescue..

baseline - anytime you make a guy feel like a general than a private. He is motivated to do what YOU want.

Frm: How to get through to a man; Bruce Cameron
yes, a guy wrote this- a traitor to his gender
wahaha..
Girl Power

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