hope

i hope to look back on this memory and say that i did good...
while watching oprah..
i learnt a valuable lesson today
from a mother of a drunk driver...
she said that if there was one thing she could have done differently..
that could have changed things..
was that she was not only strict to her son..
but also be a friend...
that she should not have been so intimidating when telling him drinking was disallowed..
instead told him..
that if he were in such a situation..
being drunk that is...
that he was giving the option to call her instead..
that she would have told him that
she would judge..
jus go to her..
she's jus a call away..
for help

i hope.. if ever i do become a parent.. that i'll never forget this lesson..

to give roots... and give wings..